It’s a helluva way to live, what you’re doing. You’ve got two major stsrseors and then complications on top. I moved a few years ago and a friend told me that it would take about 6 months for me to move in , that is, to feel like this place was home. She was right, and the move was the best thing I’d done in years. I hope your breaking-in time goes smoothly and quickly. The heart thing might take a bit longer, but I hope that smooths out with time as well.Take care,Faithful Reader